I do all of what I do with working vibrationally so that we are attracting those things that fit with our vibrations. This being said, I will admit that I have negative thoughts. All of us do, and we cannot control our thoughts. We can control what we choose to hold on to and what we choose to focus on. I thought that was what I had been doing fairly well. It came as a bit of a “hmmmm... “ moment when my son recently came over to help me (that is, to actually do the chore himself) power wash my deck and get it ready to be stained.